“Vi hade inte sex, vi bara…”

Amerikaner…

Though 95% said penile-vaginal intercourse was having sex, 11% said it wasn’t sex if there is no ejaculation. Thirty percent said that oral sex was not having sex. Twenty percent said anal sex was not having sex. Among older men (age 65 and older), 23% did not consider penile-vaginal intercourse to be sex.

http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/booster_shots/2010/03/sex-definition-kinsey.html 

http://www.aftonbladet.se/wendela/relationer/article6578562.ab